This is what I've learnt about anxiety management from my own experience with anxiety, and that of others.

1. Anxiety may be trying to tell us something valuable, IF WE BOTHER TO LISTEN, which most of us don't because we are so absorbed in trying to get rid of it.
2. Listening to our anxiety and the reason it may be there, can be a painful process, but, if we stay with it long enough, on the other side of the pain may be the brighter life we are longing for. This helped me when I needed anxiety management. I discovered my anxiety was trying to tell me to stop being a workaholic.
3. Sometimes all our anxiety is telling us to do is to be better prepared and to have more skills.
4. Instant solutions to "cure anxiety" are usually gimmicks.
5. There are an enormous number of valuable anxiety management techniques that are available to help us become at ease with anxiety, reduce anxiety and allow it to go altogether.

There is not ONE anxiety management technique that suits everyone. Each of us needs to be willing to put in the time, effort and patience to find the technique(s) that work best for us. 

6. Building up a determination not to give up finding a way through the anxiety and not to give in to the anxiety can make the difference in overcoming it. It took me 18 months to sort out my panic attacks not 18 hours or days.
7. Usually we need a combination of anxiety management techniques to get the best results; one technique on its own may be nowhere near as long lasting and successful as a combination of techniques.
8. Medication on its own may only suppress anxiety and not remove the fear of it, and thus we may remain ever vigilant against anxiety and fearful of coming off the medication. Medication on its own, may keep us stuck in a self-perpetuating cycle of anxiety.
9. If, when medication eases the symptoms of anxiety we take it as an opportunity to grow and develop in the way that we need, we may then be able to remove the need for medication. Thus, medication when supplemented with other techniques, may free us from anxiety and be a successful anxiety management technique.

PS: An extra tip on anxiety management: Mixing alcohol and anxiety can produce lethal results.

What are your anxiety management tips?

Written by Rachel Green.  Professional Speaker | Trainer | Coach | Author.

Rachel has used meditation to overcome panic attacks. She is the author of the 2 CD set: "Happy not hassled: Using meditation to manage your emotions". It is Confident Woman's most popular CD set. Click here to get your copy.

Rachel also conducts a live webinar "Managing anxiety - creating calm" that you can enrol in throughout Australia. It only takes an hour and if you have a computer you can join in at home or at work. Click here for more details.

She can also speak at your conference or event on: Managing anxiety: don't panic yet!
This is an inspiring speech, hilarious, practical and relevant.

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NB: This article is for your information only and does not constitute individual advice. Everyone is different. It is not provided as an alternative to obtaining professional advice from an appropriately qualified practitioner. Please seek the help you need.